Haven't I speak about this topic millions of times? argh.. I am here again reminding myself about the same topic... Understanding Dhamma is 1 thing, Applying it is another thing..
Expectations.. we have expectations in everyone.. Everyone lies their expectation on us too...
Few things happen, make me realllllly undergo some expectation vs disappointments moment, hence writing this blog. (nah.. not reali sad.. jz disappointed thats all.. hehe)
1. I came bec home this weekend to celebrate dad's birthday.. i hope it was a grand one, with a good dinner, and i will pay using my first pay.. but many things happen.. and I ended up celebrating with dad (n mum) together just with a cake... and only me n Qi around... =( anyway.. that's alright..
2. I wanted so much to eat my favourite Mee Rebus so I waited for more than 10mins.. and bless u, i actually decided to leave than waiting.. coz of the attitude of the seller, and the number of people waiting.. well, i believe someday i will come bec for it, or rather i will go to another better stall for it. =)
3. I actually hoped that I can loose soem weight before CNY.. then I decided to be before May, I guess now it is almost impossible.. due to life routine, im really tired out already....
actually there are a lot more, but these 3 has already given me enuf headaches.. hahaa... so that's alright la.. let go expectations, let me jz relax n rest before a new week start! =)
2 comments:
hahah.. make ur expectation smaller n easier to achieve.. then u wont feel so disappointed.. like lost 1kg before may.. then will be easier to achive than lost some weight before may.. cos the "some" is too abstract.. hahha..
More specific goals are easier to achieved..
And I'm sure your dad is very happy to have you by his side celebrating birthday for him.. He must be delighted!
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