thanks for the Technology advancement, today we have blogs to type in, instead of write in. people in the past use to write in dairies/journals to keep their memories.. today, is about sharing the memories by writing them in webs, and people who care for you, read about it.
i used to write in my blogs, my feelings, my tears, my fear.. but bcoz of that, ppl know more about me, and some disagree with me being emo.. then, i slowly "evolve" to write only about happiness, and hide all the sorrows. so that people who care for me, wont worry about me, or disagree with me..
then after that, it evolve again. i stop writing about myself, i change to write about other things that is around me.. people, things.. to share with people who care for me the thigns that i see and explored.. people enjoy it, yet they didnt realise they are already two steps further from me.. bcoz they no longer see my emotions, understand my thoughts..
today, i have read a lot of blogs.. and i realise that my intentions of writing a blog has changed so much.. it should be a place where i express my thoughts, my feelings, and care nothing about how ppl look at it, how ppl htink about it, or how ppl judge it.. because it is my blog.
if soemone disagree with me, or unhappy about what i wrote, then the person shall not read on. a blog is only a place that i can write anything i wan without fear.. instead of telling me how I should live my life, i prefer someone to come in and say "dun worry, I am here for you".
it is very bad for us to judge someone's blog.. or to think they should do this, or do that.. should not write like this, should not speak like that.. if we have such thoughts when reading a blog, probably we should judge ourself, before we judge others..
respect others' spaces.. leave if you dun feel like it =D
p/s: i miss those blogs where i can read their true feelings in their heart.. and bcoz of all the judgement people gave, they close up their blogs and shut off their hearts.. and with that, i cant even enter their world anymore.. i can only wish and wish may all be well and happy.. i can only send and send lots of metta...
what mistakes we have done?
2 comments:
haha, r u talking bout me, i didnt close up that blog, i just privated that post only.. hehe... bcoz today wake up in the morning that this shouldn't be a big problem in my life... is just a simple 'other peole problem' i wont need to care bout that, main thing is i will try to improve myself from her words.. hehe.. and when i wan to private that post, coments come in, can tbelieve so fast u read it.. herm, may be next time, i show my private post for a night, then only i privated it, then if u got a chance to read, read, if u dun then nothing happens too.. hehe.. good idea ner.. haha..
haha! I agree with you so much! Seriously, sometimes I typed a long blog and when i wanna press publish, I think twice...
Will I hurt anyone because of my post?
Will I make ppl who cares worry about me?
Slowly, it is no longer a blog where I write about my feelings.. But gotta neutralise my feelings with teachings.. >.<
hahaha!
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