Have you ever fear that something will happen, which is undesired, that you try your best to not face it at all, by running away.. or finding other direction to turn to.. or by just stucking your ostrich head into the hole.. thinking that others will not see it..
even when we did mistakes, we tend to cover ourselves up.. or just shut up, hoping that others will not see the mistakes, and we will be free from shame and lost of pride. we find tonnes of reasons.. tonnes of stories.. tonnes of excuses, just to make ourselves look better in others, and make ourselves close to perfect.. while blaming others (indirectly)and put them into the hot soup.
*DENIAL*
Human? Human are given brains.. to think, to rationalise things.. we are lazy to use it for good cause, e.g. study hard, reserach, thinking, analyzing.. you name it.. but we are good in using it for other cause.. e.g. find excuses, runaway, torturing it with alcohol..
then when things that we are afraid to face is going to happen, we find ways to stop it first.. or delay it.. then runaway whenever possible.. sometimes we think is better that we dont face it, but is that really a way out?
when things had happen and we did mistakes.. we find ways to hide, and runaway.. because of our self ego, our pride and prestige, we think that it is better that we RUNAWAY...
It is natural for all human to think and act like this.. most importantly, if you realise you did such kind of things, you gotta find ways to be honest and tell the truth. It is better late than never.
Face it if you did mistakes.. It is from mistakes that we learnt.. How others see you as a person is a different story. If a person only trust you for being dishonest, is the person still trustable?
I am a failure too, for I did make mistakes, and sometimes I runaway as much as I could.. Has anyone never done a mistake before?
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